Sunday, May 8, 2011

Real Mother's Day

There is talk of moving that apostrophe in "Mother's Day"--not just for two-mom families--but to focus on all mothers not a child's particular mother. Sew and Sow posted a link yesterday to Julia Ward Howe's original Mother's Day Proclamation, reminding me that today was intended to be more than tea parties and cards (though, I enjoyed that immensely this weekend; more later). That proclamation, in conjunction with Nicholas Kristof's recent essay on maternal mortality in Somaliland and several mailings from Save the Children, remind me that even if the American holiday never changes, there is so much we can do to make change in the world for mothers and their children.

Mother's Day Proclamation
Arise, then, women of this day!

Arise, all women who have hearts,
Whether our baptism be of water or of tears!

Say firmly:
"We will not have great questions decided by irrelevant agencies,
Our husbands will not come to us, reeking with carnage, for caresses and applause.
Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearn
All that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy and patience.
We, the women of one country, will be too tender of those of another country
To allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs."

From the bosom of the devastated Earth a voice goes up with our own.
It says: "Disarm! Disarm! The sword of murder is not the balance of justice."
Blood does not wipe out dishonor, nor violence indicate possession.
As men have often forsaken the plough and the anvil at the summons of war,
Let women now leave all that may be left of home for a great and earnest day of counsel.

Let them meet first, as women, to bewail and commemorate the dead.
Let them solemnly take counsel with each other as to the means
Whereby the great human family can live in peace,
Each bearing after his own time the sacred impress, not of Caesar,
But of God.

In the name of womanhood and humanity, I earnestly ask
That a general congress of women without limit of nationality
May be appointed and held at someplace deemed most convenient
And at the earliest period consistent with its objects,
To promote the alliance of the different nationalities,
The amicable settlement of international questions,
The great and general interests of peace.

--Julia Ward Howe


  1. Buona serra seniorina,
    I notice you use the spelling 'plough' rather than 'plow', thank you.

    Have you noticed how difficult it is to type in a foreign language?