Sis stayed home because the doctor Thursday afternoon said she had probably had the flu and was only just getting over it (strep test negative.) We lolled around, watching "Glee," our new show (yes, there are a lot of adolescent situations but it gives us a chance to talk--about sex, pleasure, responsibility, feminism, sexism, body issues, bullying, homophobia, acceptance, etc etc etc.)
Bud came home midday (it was just a half day) and we hung out for a bit before running off to an appointment, picking up some dinner, and having some frozen yogurt.
We were kinda dull on Friday, with Sis still recovering and Bud tired after a long week at school (he was probably fighting the virus Sis had without actually developing the flu.) We had pizza and watched Beetlejuice, which holds up pretty well some thirty years later. The kids didn't quite get it, but nobody was scared of the ghosts or sad about the deceased.
I finished crocheting a blanket for an old high school buddy with whom I've reconnected and sent it on its way; she's having surgery and I wanted her to know I was thinking of her. It's my usual Giant Granny Square but with a new edging called the Crab Stitch (mainly reverse single crochet around a row of double crochet.) The colors in the photo are a little muted because it was overcast--it's actually a lovely lavender, some deeper light green, and blue.
I did manage some shopping for the last of our Easter grocery needs. Our final menu includes deviled eggs, pimento cheese, ham, macaroni and cheese, green bean casserole, cheddar cheese rolls, green peas, and Shaker Lemon pie, with Zinger Sherbet Punch. And I got some hyacinths and hydrangeas for Ma and for me.
The Easter Penguin came! There weren't any wet footprints because we don't have carpet anymore, but he did leave the kids a set of Minecraft blocks. We had asked Bud if he thought the Easter Penguin would come and Bud reiterated that the Easter Penguin was very reliable.
The kids skipped their morning activities, both because they weren't feeling great and because Ma and Gong arrived . . . . so we went to the movies instead! Yep, went to see Zootopia, which was funny but also a good teachable moment on race, biological determinism, stereotypes, prejudice, free will, the role of police in society--it even had a plot to incriminate the "predators" by poisoning them with toxic flowers (see recent interview excerpts with Nixon lacky Ehrlichman who said the war on drugs was exaggerated to criminalize and oppress African Americans and hippies/war protestors.) All it needed was #PredatorsLivesMatter.
We had lunch at a new traditional Mexican restaurant which serves fresh tableside-made guacamole, lots of grilled foods (including cactus!), lots of authentic-seeming dishes, and fresh tortillas (I know, Texans, none of that sounds special but this is Connecticut.) Some of it was even too spicy for Ma and Gong!
The afternoon was a hodgepodge of "It's the Easter Beagle, Charlie Brown," eating apple pie, Bud trying out Gong's tai chi sword, building an Easter nest (there were flowers in bloom this year!!), making origami bunnies and frogs, and eventually saying goodbye to Ma and Gong.
We planted a hydrangea to mark the almost-one-year anniversary of the death of beloved Aunt Sis (today, btw, was the first anniversary since my emergency surgery.) We had planted two other hydrangeas this spring in her memory, but I think only one survived the winter (and my gardening!)
Then the "work" started! We pulled out the Easter decorations and purged some of the books and things. We always find extra egg decorating kits--and so Sis chose plain tab Pas dye and Bud did tie dye. I drew on a few eggs with a Sharpie and a wax crayon--see my bunny, Bay Max, and Totoro. Lots of fun. Then I prepped some dishes while Mama made the traditional last-minute run to the store. And the kids and I hid some eggs and left a basket for the little girl and boy across the street.
And it's not even Easter yet.