Showing posts with label blogs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label blogs. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

A Different Kind of Mommy Blog

In reflecting on how I see my blog, about which I just posted, I find myself reading blogs more than ever before.  Sure, I have more time on my hands now than I have since I was pregnant (when I read infertility-turned pregnancy-turned mommy blogs like So Close, A Little Bit Pregnant, and Here Be Hippogriffs), but I enjoy following blogs and also want the information they contain--either updates on RL (for Gommie:  that's  "real life") friends or family or recipes, craft tips, household management info, inspiration, etc.

Over and over again these days I'm drawn to one type of blog:  professional organized mommy-homesteader blogs!  Okay, I made up the category myself, but I don't know how else to describe usually SAHM and homeschooling (frequently rural) moms who are dedicated to natural living, all things homemade, beautiful photography, and often some kind of blog-based business.  Now, that doesn't describe all of the blogs below, but it's close (and for those it doesn't apply to, my guess is the greater part of the readership is in this category).  Of course, I'm not quite in that category--a SAHM but not homeschooler, not rural but interested in DIY and natural living, and not a member of the Church of the Latter-Day Saints (LDS) or a Christian church (yep, that's another big part of it sometimes, the glorification of motherhood and the Proverbs 31 wife.  See this NPR feature on "Biblical Womanhood" and the blogger who tried to live it.), but I like is the general interest in family, home, homemade, and doing everything as efficiently and mindfully  as possible.  Not because it is biblically proscribed, but because I enjoy it and find value in it and am good at it.   As one feminist, non-LDS writer in Salon described of her Mormon Mommy Blog obsession,
But the basic messages expressed in these blogs — family is wonderful, life is meant to be enjoyed, celebrate the small things — are still lovely. And if they help women like me envision a life in which marriage and motherhood could potentially be something other than a miserable, soul-destroying trap, I say, “Right on.”  
And that's how I feel about my recent blog reading, too, which includes these new additions: 
Next up, Lesbian Mommy Blogs!!

Friday, October 7, 2011

Goodbye and Good Luck, Lisa Belkin!

It was announced today on Motherlode that Lisa Belkin is departing for HuffPo (check out the post for a great summary of posts through the years).  I have been an avid reader and sometime commentor on her blog these last three years and will miss the inspiring, informative, touching, and sometimes infuriating (always in the comments!) posts.

I wish Lisa Belkin the best of luck and thank her from the bottom of my heart for her years of guidance and support of mothers and all parents, me included.   I'll be following her to HuffPo, though I don't ever comment there--now I might have to! (You're losing out, NYTimes.)

(I'll add that she commented here twice--here and here--which thrilled me to no end.  Thanks, Lisa!)