- because she stood up and said racism isn't funny;
- because she is practical and efficient;
- because she never really blinked about having a lesbian for a daughter and has always been my (and our) biggest supporter (not easy considering the conservative, homophobic, did I say racist? tendencies of many of her fellow Texans);
- because she has a curious and questioning mind and is a lifelong learner;
- because she loves to read (and there was no limit on books when I was growing up!);
- because she loves to travel;
- because she cares about making a difference, for example with volunteer work with abused women and the education of girls;
- because she is a feminist and raised us to do or be anything;
- because she's not obsessed with shopping or fashion or style or decorating;
- because she's a great cook;
- because she took me to Broadway musicals and historic houses a lot when I was little;
- because she took me out of school on the opening day of Return of the Jedi;
- because she never once said she was disappointed in me;
- because all my friends like her (especially my lesbian friend in high school, who needed a caring adult);
- because she protected and promoted the fun and innocence of childhood (and still does);
- because she's trying to keep track of Star Wars and Harry Potter for her grandkids;
- because she'll try almost anything once;
- because grades were never a big deal to her, even if she was proud;
- because she's a great listener;
- because she "fights fair" and uses "I-messages" and "active listening";
- because she dropped everything, more than once, to take care of us;
- because she can drive a boat and fix a toilet and mow a lawn, which none of the other moms did;
- because she's not embarrassed to cry;
- because she's open-minded and accepting;
- because when I was a new mom (and even still) she followed our rules, even when she thought they were silly (though she never said so!);
- because her sex talk to me was fantastic (who else's mom told them that masturbation was okay??);
- because she really does forgive and forget;
- because she's (usually) pretty relaxed;
- because she can appreciate "the nicest time of the day";
- because she has "creative" hearing;
- because her jokes are most funny when she gets them mixed up;
- because she can laugh at herself;
- because she's a great person and I'm lucky she's my mom!
Friday, September 16, 2011
Just Like My Mom
Breakfast with Champions
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Paula Deen's Zucchini Bread
3 1/4 cups all-purpose flour
1 1/2 teaspoons salt
1 teaspoon ground nutmeg
2 teaspoons baking soda
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
3 cups sugar
1 cup vegetable oil
4 eggs, beaten
1/3 cup water
2 cups grated zucchini
1 teaspoon lemon juice
1 cup chopped walnuts or pecans
Directions
Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. In a large bowl, combine flour, salt, nutmeg, baking soda, cinnamon and sugar. In a separate bowl, combine oil, eggs, water, zucchini and lemon juice. Mix wet ingredients into dry, add nuts and fold in. Bake in 2 standard loaf pans, sprayed with nonstick spray, for 1 hour, or until a tester comes out clean. Alternately, bake in 5 mini loaf pans for about 45 minutes.
Paula Deen
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Ina Garten's Banana Crunch Muffins
3 cups all-purpose flour
2 cups sugar
2 teaspoons baking powder
1 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 pound unsalted butter, melted and cooled
2 extra-large eggs
3/4 cup whole milk
2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract
1 cup mashed ripe bananas (2 bananas)
1 cup medium-diced ripe bananas (1 banana)
1 cup small-diced walnuts
1 cup granola
1 cup sweetened shredded coconut
Dried banana chips, granola, or shredded coconut, optional
Directions
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F.
Line 18 large muffin cups with paper liners. Sift the flour, sugar, baking powder, baking soda, and salt into the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with a paddle attachment. Add the melted butter and blend. Combine the eggs, milk, vanilla, and mashed bananas, and add them to the flour-and-butter mixture. Scrape the bowl and blend well. Don't overmix.
Fold the diced bananas, walnuts, granola, and coconut into the batter. Spoon the batter into the paper liners, filling each 1 to the top. Top each muffin with dried banana chips, granola, or coconut, if desired. Bake for 25 to 30 minutes, or until the tops are brown and a toothpick comes out clean. Cool slightly, remove from the pan, and serve.
Ina Garten
Breakthrough
Of course, I do and will always be grateful for the others who have ferried me around, particularly Mrs. S. Thanks for taking me to the tag sale today; it was good to get out. We'll save our future outings for fun things like coffee!
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Autumn's Calling Card
The Day of Three Breakfasts
First, breakfast for breakfast. Scrambled eggs, this time.
Secondly, breakfast for lunch. They get to choose two times a month to eat the school's hot lunch and yesterday they both chose to eat the pancakes. Which apparently were good, just not as good as Mama's. But maple syrup makes everything better.
Thirdly, breakfast for dinner. We made Dutch Baby Pancakes in our new convection microwave, my first solo baking (i.e. without another adult) in a year or so. Sis and I had a fabulous time cooking together. We both missed it.
We might repeat it later this month . . . because they want to try school's French toast sticks too.
Quidditch, Anyone?
Yep, Harry Potter is in the house.
So with reminders not to take the costumes outside or eat in them, the kids ran around the house on their broomsticks and cast spells at each other and us.
Yep, they're riding the Hogwarts Express to Halloween.
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
New Arrival!
Now we just have to choose what's first!
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Almost Chowdah Weather
The temperatures are getting cooler later this week, with the first day of fall ten days away. So I'm practicing....that, and the kids asked for corn chowder, surprisingly. I've never made it ...and so I faked it (without a recipe I knew they'd eat or any fresh corn at the store). Kinda sweet but a good start. Spying the potatoes yet hoping they were apples (??), Bud grew wary. He picked around them and Sis was delighted; they each had a bowl and a half.
Mommy Hungry's Quick Corn Chowder
3 small red potatoes, diced
Boil in salted water.
Drain and reserve.
Add 2 cans cream corn, 1 1/2 cup frozen corn, 1 1/2 water, 1 cup half and half, salt and pepper. Heat through.
Mommy Hungry
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Farewell But Not Goodbye
- My kitchen, or "food studio," is more organized and peaceful. We have purged and rearranged and adapted to my inability to bend. I can do so much more in the kitchen than I've been able to do in almost a year. This new aesthetic of useful and beautiful (I would add meaningful) is expanding beyond the kitchen to the whole house.
- My day is more planned. As I focused on the personal care aspect of the workshop, I realized that a little advanced planning (and here)--meal charts for lunch and dinner (like this), to-do list, a home management notebook, even chore charts--would make things smoother, not just for me but for everyone. So, using resources referenced by the workshop leader, Heather Bruggeman, and the other participants, I am adapting materials to fit us. And I can already see the benefits. (Though, I'm not a printed-grocery list girl but a Grocery IQ devotee.)
- I know more about food, health, and nutrition. I learned about pressure cookers. I read about phytic acid in foods. I read about the dangers of too much soy. I learned how to make my own almond milk and natural soda. I learned about other sweeteners like brown rice syrup and succanat. I know more about vitamins, especially B12. I have dozens of new recipes to try when I'm cooking more. I've experienced "crowding out" of less healthy foods.
- I found inspiration and community. In my so-called "real life," I know only one other vegetarian (and now, one vegan! You go! Interestingly, I know several ex-vegetarians.). Some friends are interested in local and organic and unprocessed. But for the most part, it's SAD (Standard American Diet.) Online and in links, I communicated with others who valued whole foods, who were learning and experimenting with me. To paraphrase Julia Child (and Julie Powell), it was just us meatless home cooks here. And it was good.
- Mama and I have reconfigured how we think of meals at home. We realized we'd pretty much been running Mothers' Restaurant. Not so much because we'd act as short order cooks, but because we'd let the kids vote in advance from a few options; healthy options, often, with vegetables, but still, not a sustainable approach, especially with fickle kids who change their minds or want their favorites everyday. Not feasible. And so we're becoming more traditional (not this traditional, but inspired nonetheless) in our approach: one meal, no substitutes, have a "no thank you" bite. Mind you, I don't go out of my way to make beans! There has been resistance but we're making progress. And I'm working on lunches too, as I've mentioned here and here.
- Books, links, and more. From the movie Forks Over Knives to the book Simplicity Parenting, from Pinterest to Simple Mom, from Feeding the Whole Family to Simply Natural Cooking, I am finding more resources for me to do my day job. Really, there were too many to list here.
(And I'll be back for the spring workshop!)
My Today
Outside my window...it's hazy and humid.
I am thinking...about grandparents, having just read this on the grandparents of September 11. My kids have the best grandparents in the world! (Except of course, your kids' grandparents.)
I am thankful...for the grandparents, my parents! The kiddos who made them grandparents. The Mama who mothers them with me.
From the learning rooms... isn't everywhere a learning room?
In the kitchen...a new convection-microwave oven arrives today so that I can bake again!!! (since I can't currently bend to reach my current oven, much less pull things in and out. When does an injury become a disability? I haven't used my oven myself in more than a year.)
I am wearing...my denim-skirt with super-handy pockets and my Chicago cat rescue t-shirt.
I am creating...an invitation to our upcoming apple festival!
I am going...on my treadmill walk when I'm done posting.
I am wondering...what the kids are doing in school right now.
I am reading...nothing seriously, though I'm dabbling in Karen Armstrong's Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life and Dianna Hales's La Bella Lingua. I had started Nancy Cott's Bonds of Womanhood, a history of women in the early 19th-century, but it wasn't quite what I wanted right now.
I am hoping...that there are no surprises in the next 48 hours plus.
I am looking forward to...the weekend, when our "family" friends from Philly whom we haven't seen in years are dropping by for a visit.
I am hearing...the window fan working hard to make the room comfortable in this humidity.
Around the house...the rainbows from my various prisms are dancing.
I am pondering...how my exploration of Buddhism has helped me to weather recent ups and downs in a more even keel way than I might have before.
One of my favorite things...is this laptop, my main company from 8-3:45.
A few plans for the rest of the week: friends are coming for morning coffee on Thursday; I'm going to the church moving sale on Friday; and then our Philly friends on Saturday.
Here is picture for thought I am sharing...of the star jasmine that has just appeared in our yard this year, an unexpected gift . . .
(Thanks to the simple woman's daybook!)
Monday, September 12, 2011
Check This Out
Kids home. Check.
Bags unpacked. Check.
Lunch things washed. Check.
Play clothes changed into. Check.
Snack eaten. Check.
Folders emptied. Check.
Library books put away. Check.
Forms filled out. Check.
Homework done. Hallelujah!
Church Beginnings and Endings
Love is the spirit of this church
And service its law.
This is our great covenant:
To dwell together in peace, to seek the truth in love,
and to help one another.
--James Vila Blake
Sunday, September 11, 2011
For Today, Forever
Saturday, September 10, 2011
The Swarm
Reading Up on September 11
- a child's letter to her dad lost on September 11
- a widow writes about lessons learned
- poetry of September 11 and also why there has been no September 11 novel
- Dan Rather on history lessons
- Marlo Thomas on listening to America's daughters of September 11
- Muslim-American writers reflect on the anniversary
- relics of that day
- "Why Schools Need to Teach 9/11"
- Teaching September 11 in Connecticut
- "Witnesses to Apocalypse"
- NYTimes special section
- Life's most memorable photos of September 11
My Ultimate Guide To Beans
- While you can buy your beans from great heirloom or organic seed purveyors like Rancho Gordo or Seed Savers (I'm like a kid in a candy bean store!), if you're just starting, I recommend picking up a bag of Goya beans at the supermarket (NOT the store brand, as the quality of these aren't usually as good and old beans don't cook up as well). Black or red beans are the easiest place to start. Lentils are a totally different area (more on them later).
- Rinse and sort half the bag of beans (approximately 1 1/2 cups dried), saving the other half for another day (or make them all, just double the water . . .but that's a lot of beans!). Throw away any funny or misshapen ones. Look for rocks, especially in bags of smaller beans.
- Dump the beans into a pot or bowl and cover with approximately 5-8 cups (preferably filtered) water (depending on if you're just making basic beans or bean soup).
- Salt the beans! Yes, salt the beans. Sprinkle some table or kosher salt in the pot to help beans absorb water. Trust me. I know it's against popular belief, but Christopher Kimball of Cook's Illustrated says so. And it works.
- Leave overnight, or about 8-12 hours. Some people say you have to refrigerate or keep them cool so they don't ferment. I've never had a problem with that.
- In the morning, before you cook, look at the beans and toss the floaters. They aren't good.
- Cook. (I even cook them in the soaking water, but you can get fresh. Some say changing the water reduces gas; I say eating more beans reduces gas). Okay, there are a few ways to do this, mainly stovetop or slow cooker (I'm not a pressure-cooker girl so can't help you there). For stovetop, bring to gentle boil and then simmer until beans are cooked. In the crockpot, cook beans for 8-10 hours on Low or 6-8 on high.
- That's the basic beans. You can then drain and then use them in other recipes. Or, if you like bean soup, which is my favorite, I start adding ingredients midway through cooking, once beans are almost tender. If you add acids, like tomatoes, too early, the beans will toughen. When I'm first trying a new bean, I simply saute carrots, onions, celery, and garlic in olive oil and then add it to the pot halfway through cooking so the flavor of the bean really comes out. Once you know the beans, you can add lots of things. Sometimes to thicken a bean soup, I'll puree up to half with my immersion blender, great for vegan "cream" soups.
- Oops, I forgot to soak! No worries, just put the rinsed and sorted beans in a big pot of water, boil and simmer until done; it'll just take longer. And don't bother with the "boil for 5 minutes, turn off for an hour, and then simmer." It's just not necessary to turn them off.
- Storage of Cooked Beans: some people drain beans to store; since I usually make soup, I leave them in the liquid. Beans stay good in the fridge for a few days--just reboil and serve. They freeze well, too (though sometimes they are a bit mealy, depending on the type).
- Storage of Dried Beans: so you have 1 1/2 cups of beans left in that bag? Remove them from the bag and store in a labeled jar; keep in cabinet or another shaded place. Sometimes I combine all of my bean remnants into one soup, called beanbag soup.
- A note about canned beans: they'll do in a pinch, of course, just be sure to rinse really well. But once you become accustomed to your own cooked beans, you won't go back (especially for chickpeas/garbanzos!)
- The rules for lentils are different because they never need to be soaked.
- There are lots of different kinds of lentils, from the standard brown to the French green and black beluga (which are firmer) to the yellow and orange ones (which are much softer). I'm talking here about brown.
- Rinse and sort 3/4 cup to 1 cup of lentils. And definitely watch for those little rocks.
- Boil then simmer in approximately 5 cups of water, either to al dente (about 12-15 minutes, for salads) or until tender (20 minutes plus).
- Make soup, make salads, make pasta, use as meat substitute. There are as many options as there are lentils in that pot.
- "Beans, Glorious Beans", about a bean-cooking class I took at Bloodroot
- "Pot O' Gold", about my olla clay bean-cooking pot
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J D's Black Bean Soup
Or, an alternate "fabulous faux fassolia": I sauteed onions in olive oil, added some garlic when the onions were translucent, then poured in half a can (or less) of tomato sauce, and added the other half of my cooked limas. This was incredible. Both hot and then later in the weekend cold, just like it had been in DC. Mmmmmmm
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Red, White, and Greens with Beans Soup
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1/4 cup balsamic vinegar
1/2 cup extra virgin olive oil
1/4 cup sugar
2 t. Dijon mustard (I used spicy brown)
1 t. salt
1/4 t. pepper
Cook dried beans (I soaked them overnight in salt water) by bringing to a boil for five minutes and then simmering for about 1 1/2 hours. Prepare vinaigrette. Add dressing ingredients while beans are still warm. Chill for several hours. Serve chilled or at room temperature.
Mommy Hungry's Rice-Cooker Mujdara
2 cups white rice
2 cups cooked lentils (brown or whatever)
1/4 teaspoons cumin
1 cinnamon stick
1-3 cloves garlic, minced
2 teaspoons salt, divided
pepper
2-4 onions
1-2 tablespoon oil (grapeseed, olive, whatever)
Place rice, lentils, cumin, cinnamon stick, garlic, pepper, and 1/2 to 1 teaspoon salt in rice cooker. Add water according to machine temperament (my takes about 2 cups for this; Ar-Ma Hungry's hint is to add enough water to cover the rice plus the thickness of one finger horizontal on top of the rice--it works!). Set to cook white rice.
Meanwhile, heat oil in skillet. Add onions, sprinkling 1 teaspoon of salt on top, and cook on medium-low to medium heat. Watch onions and only stir occasionally in order to let them brown. If they get to dry, add water. Cook til brown and sweet, about 45-60 minutes.
When lentil-rice and onions are done, stir together and season to taste.
Mommy Hungry
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